Nope. If you don't establish them now then he's going to keep jerking you around until another woman comes along.
Look. Actions speak louder than words. He said he wanted you, yet asked you to make him food. If he wanted you HE would do it. Then he didn't follow through on your request. Translated: His needs are still more important than yours.
Draw the line in the sand now. This is exactly what will happen. He will contact you. After you don't respond back, he will ask if you have a "problem" with him. If you still don't respond, he is going to start getting angry. When you continue to ignore him, he will say that you're a "bitch" for ignoring him and get louder. Don't fall for it.
Re-attach when he shows that he is REALLY willing to give you what YOUR needs are. Not his.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.