coach and mr. bond, for the first time in four months, we have PLANS to go OVERNIGHT together for a camping trip next weekend. If i ignore him now, I will lose whatever chance i have to reconcille. i know this. is there not a somewhere inbetween at all? Isn;t there a way to hook him at all before makinmg demands or pulling away. i'm telling you guys he will NOT persue me if i pull away. he didn;t know i was seeing nayone. if he did, he would have pulled away completely and used it as a justification for his leaving. This is what I am looking at. can't i go on our weekend and just tell him i feel like he needs to show something??