If people bring it up to you, just thank them for their concern and that you will take it under consideration. Then drop it.
The thing is that you haven't detached your emotions from your H, so everything starts triggering you. I was like you where everyone kept saying I needed to forget her, she's crazy, etc.
The comments were just getting me down. My boss who has been like a mentor to me, saw something was wrong and asked me about it. After I told her what was going on, she told me this... "It's obvious you still love your wife. Don't listen to anyone else. It's not their marriage. Only you can decide when it is ready to quit not anyone else. If you want to fight, then that's your choice. If you choose to give in, that's a choice too. The fact is that you have the power to choose. With that power, you do anything you set your mind to."
Now only you will know how much you will be able to handle. Understand that while you can't control your H. You can control you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
