What do you think about bringing in a third party such as your H's sister to handle exchanging DD... He drops her off with his sister, you pick her up, you drop her off with his sister and he picks her up?
It doens't have to be his sister, but a family member or friend who is part of the exposure group and who is marriage friend is what you are after... sisters are a good choice usually...
I think you read protection.pdf right so you know what I am talking about?
Because if his work DID say soemthing he may be waiting to get in person with you and then blast you... I am trying to avoid that scene for you...
And this change in child care exchange system may also put him on the defensive.. which is what you want... you want your H feeling uncertain.. you don't want him thinking you are in his pocket and he's roaming fancy free here... which it sounds like he is right now...
YOu want him sweating bullets... the exposure to his work will do that, but there are other ways to apply pressure such as the one i suggested here...
