Hope, you're making awesome progress . And I'm so glad that your H is going home at night...the time you were spending together was toxic and I am 100% in favour of reducing that as much as possible. I am glad that you are starting to see the connection between detachment from your H, and taking care of yourself. I agree with RW, celebrate this success .
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. And I'm so glad that your H is going home at night...the time you were spending together was toxic and I am 100% in favour of reducing that as much as possible. I am glad that you are starting to see the connection between detachment from your H, and taking care of yourself. I agree with RW, celebrate this success 
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