couldn't Melody let him know that he does not need to be texting her? That she will let him know if there is a problem? I mean she still gets to take the upper hand and have control by informing him.

It's just that I have observed time and again that ignoring the WAS without explanation just looks like games. The WAS gets more angry and then it can make the situation more contentious.

Of course y'all can disagree with me!!! laugh Just my 2 cents.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004