I came home and told my W the news about the house. She just sat there and looked at me with a blank stare. She again told me how concerned she was about not being able to afford her own place.

She immediately jumped on the phone with a realtor to look at a rental she was interested in. She went upstairs for awhile and I think called OM to tell him what was going on. We put son to bed and she went right to her room.

I think this is the right step, she is showing no signs to reconcile and being apart will hopefully bring us closer, I hope...... At least for our son I hope we can stay amicable and eventually friends. I'm not sure how to get her back to be my W so I should work on the next best thing.


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA