Exposed finally,,limbo land

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Dropped by house at lunch, she took all the quality stuff to her house, not that there was much, but. Had 2 GF and D14 boyfriend and his dad move stuff, so at least OM didn't come around(I don't think). It's wierd how just a few pieces of missing furniture and a couple missing pictures makes a house look not quite empty, maybe 'robbed' is the best description for it.

I still am having issues with D14 being like super happy to be in the other house. I know she is that way because of her age, and the fact that she has mom wrapped around her finger. Makes me feel bad, because up until now, I've been the discipline person, cause W wouldn't/couldn't do it, so D14 has got to be looking at it like, "Good - no more chores and consequences or rules that are enforced". I'm very scared for how this is going to play out for her.