Stuck in my situation, Need some Advice

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She is usually with her cousin or with the wife of a mutual couple of ours. Sometimes she goes to the bar, but she isn't coming home drunk.

Things were definitely improving until last weekend when we had the big argument and started talking about the R. Since then things have calmed down a lot.

I don't believe the OM and her are still talking. I haven't found any communication between them. I think she just needs to get away. I am not going to ask her about it.