Lanzo says that the incident Saturday night (04/25/10) is a reality check. I agree. I will change my approach, but will probably fall short of the degree of boundary making needed. I'm new at this, so will probably fall short of what's needed at first.
As you predicted yourself, you are falling way short in the boundary making in your marriage.
Originally Posted By: Coach
A real boundary would have been, "I understand he is hurting and you want to help. I won't share my wife with another man, especially to spend the night. His problems are his problems it is not appropriate for you to get involved."
I agree with what coach is sayin here, this is an appropriate boundary.
