Just found out she already filed

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SR,

My heart goes out to you as well. Like you I can't seem to detach and although she is 100% moved on and done with me she is in my thoughts every day and I still ache for her every day.

In my sitch she basically started packing stuff up while we were in an in-house separation. Still do not know what all she took but it didn't matter. Told her to leave me my vehicle, my firearms, one tv, one dvd player, my bed, washer dryer etc and she could take everything else. So I was OK with that.

Funny thing was that even after the divorce she thought she could still come over and take stuff that she "forgot about". I had to set her straight on that.

I remember her wanting to take our family tent and camping equipment. Mind you she lives alone. I told her NO! Who the hell was she going to go camping with? She claimed there was no OM. Im sure Ill find that out later one way or another as her online boyfriend lives four states over.

After I found out about her affair I took my key back. We no longer communicate in any shape or form. Good for me in the long run but I still get the urge to call or text her. God help me if I do!

I wish you well. Be strong.