I was VERY happy with the counselor! Not only did she know all 3 books, but said she recommends these very ones. She was on the exact same page, philosophically too. She also believes it is not her job to be "secret keeper". In other words, if there is an A and H tells her, she will expect him to come clean. She feels secrets destroy marriages and all the same things we've discussed. She was GREAT. I hope H's appt. goes well tonight although, I guess I won't ask him about it unless he offers up that information. I'm kinda nervous and I'm not sure why. Maybe because I know things can get worse before they get better at times...
