G, it'll happen. 57 is the new 47 and from your looks you don't look a day older than 50. Have you tried Match.com or eHarmony.com? You should when you're ready!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
You know G...it's amazing what you can learn from a 5yo and what mine has taught me is that persistence pays off. You fall, you get up again and try harder...keep at it and it'll happen whatever it is.
You may have gotten discarded by one person out of a million but who cares? and we all know that that one person wasn't the smartest or the most trustworthy either.
Maybe you don't have to look for that one special person...I don't think they charge extra if you have 2 or 3
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Thanks, CTH. I love Chicago. StepD moved there in '03 and for a NYC born and raised BIC (Bronx Irish Catholic) I love Chicago, and still do. Was last there in late October.
I sure could use a "(very attractive) friend."
How to start over completely from scratch @ 56? (57 in three weeks.) Where? How?
Oh, well. It will happen; it will make itself known
I know what you mean. I started over at 33; it was no picnic, but it was nothing like this (at 52 when all this began). All I can say is...one breath at a time.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Somehow STBXW at 38 doesn't share the same mindset. To her things will be great for her...
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again