Take your D shopping. Let her pick our some "homey" things. You can direct her maybe let her choose between two candles or lamps. If you make this about "a new adventure" that you and D get to share, she'll get excited about changes instead of anxious. Don't get me wrong. She'll still miss mom but she might not care that the living room is rearranged if she got to pick out the new _____ and help decide where to put it.
