Gucci, you and I have never had a problem as far as I can remember, I could be wrong, I am growing older. : ) A dissagreement? A verbal bashing? Doesn't even ring a bell.
I disgree with the way you approach some issues. The cut and dry of it, this OR that.
MLC? is OVER-APPLIED.
Strange to hear me say that since I consider MLC my sandbox?
It is true...MLC is the last 'hope' Area.
It is also not for me or anyone there to kill someones hope. The death of hope is a personal thing, like putting down your own dog.
Hope is hope, always will be. False hope? cynical for something that is unlikly to happen maybe even impossible, but you 'hope' for the long odds.
We also advocate and advise to grow as a person and to lose the codependancy that is so common with the new posters. Do we coddle? Yeah a little bit.
Do we do things differently? Hell yeah.
Do we dismiss New Comers like some of you have dismmissed MLC? No. We do things differntly and some of those things do not mesh we or at least I do say that alot.
Does MLC exist?
It seemed to fit my wife. So I believe in it. But to just dismiss it? Hell the numbers are rough but I'll stand by them roughly half the mental health professionals aren't sure if it is real.
I also absolutely totally agree with your set them free take on it.
We actually say MANY of the same things at the most core level. Our tactics are different, and all of us want to help people through some of the crappiest times of their lives.
For something totally off the subject.
Where or why did you pick Gucci Loafer as your name? I have always wondered that.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK