WW has said over the last couple months "I just want to live in peace" and she also told me "how peaceful the house is now that I'm staying with family"...it just hit like a ton of bricks...
"Live in peace" is WW's code word(s) for "don't make me take responsibility for my actions"
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
Please move your phone so that family funds are no longer used to help fund your affair with OM. So that we are clear, not one dime of family money will be used to pay for your phone while you continue your affair with OM. You need to pay for the activation fee for one of DD's phones...let me know when you do that.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
WW and I have decided to seek Divorce mediation...so I will be jumping over to the Divorce thread.
I want to thank Sandi and Puppy Dog Tails for busting my onions and giving me truly life changing advice. I have gained back my dignity, self respect, and confidence which enables me to enter any future relationships with the necessary tools to ensure success.
Remember, DB/DR is for US...see you on the other side!
Thank you all!
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
Well, the saving grace is she definitely noticed my GAL activities wearing my earring, growing a beard(I've since shaved...got to itchy), playing guitar, and embarking on new adventures with DD's because she mentioned those specifically in our MC/FC session yesterday.
Will I be waiting by the phone for STBXW to call me? Naw
Will I leave the light on? Yes, but the question is How long will the light remain on? That I can't answer today.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
Well, the saving grace is she definitely noticed my GAL activities wearing my earring, growing a beard(I've since shaved...got to itchy), playing guitar, and embarking on new adventures with DD's because she mentioned those specifically in our MC/FC session yesterday.
Will I be waiting by the phone for STBXW to call me? Naw
Will I leave the light on? Yes, but the question is How long will the light remain on? That I can't answer today.
I'd say that's just about the perfect balance, 51. Shining a light on the path back to you, but -- make no mistake -- I'm WALKIN' down the path, baby, and I ain't looking over my shoulder.
