Once I tried to learn how to play the piano but I gave up after a day because it didn't seem to be working.
Tell me what is wrong with my thinking above.
As an LBSer you ACCEPT a certain ammount of abuse and you do this because you have this desire to be married to the person who is having an MLC.
YOU accept this. You suffer for your children right? They can treat us like dirt at times...yet we love them, unconditionally, but oh no not our crazy spouse. Not them.
Look Mila how do you know for sure, no...
You determine if he is in MLC, that's on you. No one here is a professional to make that diagnosis, and no professional would do it without actually seeing the person in the flesh and talking with them.
MLC seems like a last resort for people...because at least there is a chance of them coming back.
This is tough I am pretty sure everyone here told you that form the get go.
YOU have it harder.
You and he are in a business together. So you have to dettach emotionally, but not professionally. Not sure I could do that. Pretty sure I couldn't actually. Me? I'd get a new job, seprate the two.
Until then, I'd blow smoke up the customers ass and tell them she is on vacation...because she was (hypothetical)...even if that vacation was here going to Columbia to try her hand at smuggling coke.
How dare he?
HE dares all the time. Get used to it, get immune to it. You seem to think he is rubbing your face in it. Think about it, he didn't want your daughter to tell you...is THAT rubbing your face in it?
The crap you know from the OW's H ISN'T helping you, it is hurting you.
Get a life, focus on yourself. Look for a new job seprate yourself from him if you are unable to keep business business.
You say his convictions have firmed up? Have you been pressuring him? Making him feel like crap? Curious...look deep with that answer.
Used and Abused...ONLY because you are business partners who were married.
IF you were business partners...without the whole being married with a kid....you might say something about him giving her a discount and crap...but right now he'd just be on vacation.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
