I'm gonig through the same as you know and like BBJ said I'm being punitive rather than being calm, cool and confident.

I guess I just don't know how to do that. I can't visualize what a calm, cool, confident Romeo would do under these circumstances and during these interactions.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again