All the signs are there that H is in MLC...but how do you know for sure? Maybe he is WAS because he is saying in actions that he wants to be with OW...introducing her to his family and not wavering any longer as he was before, he behaves like he is done...at least from what I can see.
I'm still believing that he is MLC...So if the key is to outlast his MLC and be the better option...how do I achieve this without being used and abused. I'm between a rock and a hard place being in business with him.
Do I answer that phone for him while he is vacationing with OW? Do I cover for him while he is on his 2-week visits with OW...do I do that without a word to him even if I feel used?
Somebody please let me know what a lovingly detached person in this situation would do.
Dudess - I know that nothing is working...being his friend didn't work and going dim is not working either. What other option are there?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
