I think you forgot or believed that having your x wife in your life...no matter the cost WAS what you imagined was the best for Sleeper.
Look at this quote VERY closely...VERY....take your time to really think about this.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans