but the problem is-- she's got the kids. and she's not willing to share them with me or agree to any sort of arrangement. how do I detach with love while she does this?
When you look at all this as what she does TO you.
You will never be able to control what she does or how she acts or reacts...
So
You are going to keep giving her the power to ruin your life?
It is not in her action but your RE-action that your salvation is found...
What happens in a power struggle when one of the parties stops stuggling?
I am not saying be a doormat.
This in not the normal response but it is the most logical.
Think about it.
There is way to stand up for your beliefs and character without beating someone over the head with it.
We have to figure out what your beliefs and character are first...
Ergo the query
Who is Bradley?
Maybe we can chat over a Scotch, I prefer less peaty
Benromach which is Speyside single malt. I am afraid my taste is for the older expressions-15 to 21 year olds... not cheap.
But sooooo good.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
