Originally Posted By: Dudess
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Because the strategies seldom work together for...confronting and making demands of the spouse and cutting them off completely.


It seems you completely misunderstand the alternate strategy. It does NOT involve demands, confrontation, or cutting them off.


In other area's those strategies are or have been suggested Dudess.

They might not the ones you are talking about but I wasn't aware you were being specific about just one alternate stratgey.

That air of superiority in dissmissing me, feel good? : )

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 07/01/10 06:37 PM.

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