Yup... I know its scary, but remmeber its the addiction talking...
THe LINE that was crossed was the truth... you did the right thing... We warned you it could get nasty...
And the SIDE you are on is the side of the marriage rather than the side of infidleity/divorce... You are simply inviting the REST of his family to take an honest side FULLY informed...
DOn't contact him or listen to his rants for at least three days while he cools down...
Follow up with your family whom you exposed to.. keep them up to date.. this is a family matter and they deserve to be kept in the know...
And prepare for your WS to run damage control and spread more lies...
Move all finances to a safe place as well...
Try to have a friend or family member in the know with you at all times.. if your H shows up at yoru door you want someone there running itnerference who will send him away...