How to tell the kids

[dday101798]

No problem.

However, I am not telling you to "be ruthless". I'm just sayin treat this like a very important business transaction, and when their is personal involvement in that transaction, you have a conflict of interest, and where there is a conflict of interest, the deal gets soured.

Secondly, I hope your right. I hope your W is going into this with a mutual, non-agressive interest.

Mine said the very same.

Then, we entered the court room. And I was handed several dockets of false accusations that I had to claw and pcik at to at least get everyother weekend with my boys as initially, I was such a "horrible" "maniplutlating" and "abusive" person, that it was an "endangerment" for me to see MY OWN KIDS unsupervised. EDIT - And for the record, (x)W stiill claims she had NOTHING to do with a No Visitation Order.

That's why I have also advised you about being confrontational. It will come back to bite you in the arse.

So yeah, all the documents already served up might look all nice and clean, but be prepared for the unexpected! It's called catching you and your attorney off guard. It's a sick twisted effen game.

If it doesn't happen that way and goes nice and clean, GREAT! However, it probably won't. And let me tell you it just sucks to ripped apart peice by piece and by the time you realized what the hell happened, you got your thumb up your rear, two sheets to the wind in a daze.