Originally Posted By: Dudess
I hope you will at least give some consideration to viewpoints that you won't find on MLC.


Like what exactly Dudess?

This

Originally Posted By: gucciloafer
For those of you hurting and searching for your answers...

Setting them free is the key...
It will also begin to set YOU free...

Love works best when it is freely given..


Did you read this(Mila's) thread? Have you read other threads on here?

Feel free to look at mine.

Everyone gets to their own place at their own time.

And for the record that ^^^^^ advice is said here EVERY DAY.

BUT

You have to experience what you experience in spite of all the wisdom you HEAR

UNTIL

You're ready to hear...

IMO viewpoints here focus on the LBS and the growth and healing of the LBS

...and when the LBS is to the point when they can truly let go with LOVE

not PAIN and RESENTMENT

...then they are well on the way to healing.

Just as we cannot control the WAS.

No one can say when the LBS is ready to do this,

...except the LBS.

Just sayin'

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am