Exposure is going well today. Everyone I have called has been extremely sympathetic, if not all that surprised. They, like me, have been suspicious that something has been going on for a while, and it certainly explains why marriage counseling and all my positive changes have done nothing to stop the this train wreck.

Working up the courage for the talk tonight with the wife's husband and then the actual confrontation when he gets home from going out with OW. I don't know if I can do this without crying a little - is it okay to have some tears as long as I am not pleading and outright sobbing?

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