Yes, I've been given some great advice by Sandi, Gucci, Puppy, Coach, CG, Greek and many others. I'm very grateful. I'm following what Gucci suggested. I believe he has it correct in what I need to do to give me any chance with my W. It took me a long time to realize it but I'm there now.
Hi Gr8. Yes, I'm still going to work on this and try. Still no evidence of OM. I still want this M more than anything. I want it so much that I'm willing to let her go. It feels so strange to say that I'm willing to let her go to get a chance to get her back.
I haven't heard from W in three weeks. I haven't tried to contact her. Just going on about my business and doing my thing. I'm taking care of the house and not asking her for anything. As Coach suggets, I'm trying to lead.
Who knows what will happen. Time will tell.
mza8
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch