How to tell the kids

[dday101798]

Dan,

This is the part where you're really gonna need to listen.

When you enter those doors to that court room, this no longer becomes the breakdown of a lost love, it's a full on business transaction. Your heart and feelings for her have no place in it, beause I will guarentee you, hers won't be.

Who said having you removed from the house is stricken from the docket? Her??? BLAH!!!!

Guess what buddy? You have a job, she doesn't. How is she gonna support herself? Why do you think she won't get a job?

Ummm, no job, no income. Which means no possibility to get a place of her own. Guess who's leaving now? Ohh, and while you're at it thinking about it, where will that put YOU since YOU made the initial request and didn't back itup that she leave?

I'm telling you, it gets nasty from here.

She already has her own little inner voice asking her "how am I going to do this, how am I going to live, but I can't live like THIS anymore". And like I said, couple that with an attorney, well, like the miranda goes, any thing you say CAN and WILL be used againt YOU in a court of law.