Is it no possible to give a WAS speech and still remain in the same household and just detach?
detachment is something I have not been successful at apparently. We were both invited to friends for the 4th. We both, as it stand now, are invited.
The issue has been and I will admit I had a hard time following/implementing advice giving. I pursuit too much and when things got slightly better I'd jump all over it. She'd give an inch I'd go the mile.
I am currently in a detach state of mind where I was not before. So its not fair to say that the advice giving by other board members has failed but rather I failed to follow their advice.
I am also at the point where I now see the logic behind Gucci's approach but I am uncertain on how to apply to my situation and I don't want to follow through till I have it figured out.
Sounds to me, OIN, that your final four paragraphs kinda answer your own question that you pose in your first.
