What you are implying is that talking to a female would be the same as your W having an A with OM. That is not what Gucci would tell you. He's saying to GAL and start talking to other women and stop giving your WAW all your attention. She doesn't want it.....so start giving it to others and see what happens.
Well, I look at it this way...
YOUR wife was having an EA.. You have caught HER twice... right?...
The reality and the facts are showing that YOU are the one trying to save the relationship. SHE is the one talking to the opposite sex.
YOU are now NOT talking to the opposite sex and YOU are the one getting rejected.
So, in REALITY and TRUTH.. The person that wants someone else and has been mingling with the opposite sex is the one that has the spouse trying as hard as anyone has ever tried to save the relationship. It hasn't turned you against her in the least.. The reality seems to be that you want her more than ever, can't let go, are waiting on her every whim and would love nothing more than to be loved back..
The person that is NOT talking to someone of the opposite sex is getting rejected. The person not mingling or talking (notice I didn't say to get married or sleep with the first woman you have a good laugh with).. with the opposite sex is being told that it is over and seeing so much anger that things are getting thrown and broken..
It seems to me that what SHE is doing is the thing that is working and has brought you around. What are those things she is doing that brought you around? An EA, telling you she is done, taking away her love, pulling back, being in her own world etc. etc..
