he is taking a trip after a trip...expecting me to keep everything running while he is having carefree responsibility free good time...I do feel used...hard to be lovingly detached while you are being treated with this kind of disrespect.
You are being used Mila. He knows he can count on you to pick up his slack. You are effectively subsidizing his affair trips because you do more of the work while he spends more of the money.
You have been patient, loyal, responsible, loving, and his level of disrespect and irresponsibility keeps getting worse.
It sure doesn't look like what you've been doing is having the desired effect.
I hope you will at least give some consideration to viewpoints that you won't find on MLC.
I think you are an amazing woman. I hate to see your fine qualities exploited rather than treasured.
