Well, there seems to be some kind of trouble in paradise. Even though they have kept there TM and phone calls going, she hasn’t been able to see him since last Friday, and she says,’ He wont be around us(her and D14) on the 4th, you’ve ruined that for me’, after I asked her t make sure D14 was not around him, if the two of them did something without D8 and I.
Also said. “I don’t think what you’ve done is working how you thought, it may have hurt a couple of my friendships, but it doesn’t make me like you. You’ve totally alienated me from my family, and my BF is mad at me. Stop spreading rumors about me!”.(as close to yelling as she gets)
I said, “I’m not going to apologize for that. I did that for this family. I’m not spreading any rumors. I only told your family and my bro, and your best friend, and so-and-so’s husband(not pertinent other than he told his W, who is a mom she knows and has talked to since)”
She didn’t really apologize this morning, but was much nicer, and said she yelled at D14 yesterday also because of ‘that time of month’.
Crossing fingers and knocking on every piece of wood I see. smile


from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men"
Me -44
WAW - 43
D14
D8
EA/PA mid May,2010
WAW moved out- 07/01/10
WAW filed 07/01/10