why does this happen? can it be overcome? fighting over material things has overshadowed his reason for d-ing
Believe it or not... Do you know that many of us men actually just like to be contrary? Hard to believe huh?
The woman says "the sky is blue today".... He says.."Oh, I don't think it is so blue today" She says while in a store together..." I really like the color of that dress on that rack" He says, "I don't. We can't afford it"
and so on goes the intereaction.. argumentative, angry, emotionally distant, negative, unhappy acting...
So.... I am sure there are men reading this who are nodding their heads in agreement with me saying that "yes, I HAVE done those things and I can't believe I did."
Fight him on what is important to you. Don't let him bully you or make you fear a fight when it comes to dividing things up in divorce. Leave it to your attorney and tell your H that it is in your lawyers hands and noting you can do about it now...
