Would that not be contradicting and hypocritical "Don't talk to OM but I'm going to talk to females"
Not when you agree with her and start working on the D. Not advocating you start dating or have a EA/PA.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.