The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

And stay where? I am still responsible for the mortgage no matter where I stay, and why should I leave my own home.

Is it no possible to give a WAS speech and still remain in the same household and just detach?

detachment is something I have not been successful at apparently. We were both invited to friends for the 4th. We both, as it stand now, are invited.

The issue has been and I will admit I had a hard time following/implementing advice giving. I pursuit too much and when things got slightly better I'd jump all over it. She'd give an inch I'd go the mile.

I am currently in a detach state of mind where I was not before. So its not fair to say that the advice giving by other board members has failed but rather I failed to follow their advice.

I am also at the point where I now see the logic behind Gucci's approach but I am uncertain on how to apply to my situation and I don't want to follow through till I have it figured out.