I stress if there are kids involved because it assures the kids, there won't be any fighting in the house late at night when mommy/daddy finally comes home from her/his date with OP and the message that mommy/daddy dating OP is moraly unacceptable and will not be tolerated.
Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
i thought being independent and strong was a good thing. but apparently, it drove my h away.
Like gucci, I disagree with your premise that he left you for his mother, nah. I know a gentleman here who also said his W left him because her daddy is a "powerful successful business man who" who belittled the H because he didn't add up to everything daddy did.
Horsesquash in both cases.
Without knowing your situation, but yet you adiment to say twice that you are stong and independent, THAT is what I think drove your H away. Maybe I'm pulling the brass root of what happens when you ass-u-me, but I'm willing to bet you wore the pants in the household. After time, and alot of ridicule from his buddies, a man is gonna walk, and find a woman who is weak and quiet that HE can walk over and finally wear the pants for once. Purely henced why WAS' leave the marriage for the EXACT OPPOSITE of the LBS.
Just say'n
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
