but is there any legal implications on moving out? can the spouse claim 'abandonment' and then take the entire house if the d goes through?
That is covered under the "get your ducks in a row" part of the equation....
MAKE it happen.. Take CHARGE... Cover your own butt..
One of you HAS to go.. I would encourage you to take the initiative and push THEM out.. If not... YOU leave.. One or the other.. It won't work living together... It will still end up with one of you leaving. It works better if you get them to leave early while they just want it over than it does to wait and they then will fight back on every issue.. Down to who gets the toilet paper left on the roll
