Do NOT just let him back into the marriage... He shoudl have to work on his OWN with a FT for at LEAST three months... and you can monitor him and that PC over those three months... in private... to see if his commitment is sincere...

Honeslty, you also need to read Seanna's thread... she's in teh same/similar situation...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022141&page=all

Read that and you will LEARN the mistakes you are heading to make if you let this guy in your home and in the marriage again this quickly...