The really funny thing is I can almost beleive what you mean about the resentment being about "weakness" from her perspective, since she venomnously spat out at me a few weeks ago that she needed a MAN.
It is all about her perspective. You want to know why she thinks and acts certain ways it's because of how she feels.
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Someone to take care of everything. But I must say it sure seemed like I was doing everything I could to take care of things, other then her emotional needs.
She needs her man to be emotionally stronger than her so she feels safe. Pursuing her makes you look weak - emotionally weak to her.
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"move backwards"
she needs security - emotional, financial, family, sexual, intellectual. Security/safety is attractive the key is to not let it get boring.
Put the focus back on yourself. What are your plans for the big weekend?
What "big weekend" ? You mean 4th of July ? NO "big plans" period ! Dont have the time and dont have the money. The only thing I'll be doing is taking the kids to meet up with her and her kids and their father(OM) for the morning parade and then hand them off to her for the middle part of the day, then meet up again that night for the fireworks. It will be the first time in nearly two months I'll get to spend more then 5 minutes with the twins.
My job retraining school starts next week, plus I have a TON of work to do on the new house, PLUS get moved into it all before July 20th. The next 2 weeks of my life are going to be ridiculously busy !
