Hey Pup -
How long was it between when you exposed and when you and your wife reconciled? I'm coming to terms with the fact that nothing's going to be quick.
In terms of lawyering up - do lawyers handle these things before you file?

Me: 28 H: 28
DD: 4
M: 5 T: 9.5
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