The really funny thing is I can almost beleive what you mean about the resentment being about "weakness" from her perspective, since she venomnously spat out at me a few weeks ago that she needed a MAN.
It is all about her perspective. You want to know why she thinks and acts certain ways it's because of how she feels.
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Someone to take care of everything. But I must say it sure seemed like I was doing everything I could to take care of things, other then her emotional needs.
She needs her man to be emotionally stronger than her so she feels safe. Pursuing her makes you look weak - emotionally weak to her.
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"move backwards"
she needs security - emotional, financial, family, sexual, intellectual. Security/safety is attractive the key is to not let it get boring.
Put the focus back on yourself. What are your plans for the big weekend?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
