Yes. I thought I posted my reply to my sister asking her not to contact W for a while. That I had not given up on the marriage yet and that I was trying to DB her.
Sister responded that she didn't want W to feel that everyone was against her, or that might make her more afraid to come back if she so chose. She also didn't want to be cut off from my kids.
I told her she would not be cut-off from my kids and that if we did end-up getting D, ther would still be time for her to mend fences.
She said she understood and would resprct my wishes not to contact W.
I told her we would talk about it this weekend when we are at my mom's house.
