nope...it doesn't justify her acting the way she does
however
instead of getting angry that she is acting that way own your role in it
saying you didn't act how you would have liked to act is pretty easy to say
how are your actions showing differently?
she moved and you took it as an attack on your business you said you were going to move there with stipulations then you decided against it and stayed put and are now fighting for custody
you said you would pay for her house (making it really your house) as long as she stayed where you want her to
listen who the hell cares what I think this is about you and who you are
I am just suggesting that looking at it from a different perspective would allow you to see things differently
what have your actions taught your wife and your boys about you (I don't know what it has...just asking you to ask that question)
being a friend means that not everything relates back to you it means actively listening it means not being the center all the time it means sharing good and bad and it means laughing at everything mostly yourself
