Yes, you don't want to go back to the way it was. It's a hefty price to pay to earn your DB stripes but crucial to a better marriage.
Think "Saving Private Ryan."
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
