After following along with your posts, imo, you are so afraid you are going to 'do' the wrong thing that you read other posts and take from them what YOU feel will help YOU not your sitch.
Again imo, I think if you were to go back and reread your posts and try to detach yourself from them being 'your posts' and think of them as someone else, maybe, you could see what everyone else is seeing.
You NEED to let go of your guilt. This is HER CHOICE!!! You cannot change how she FEELS!
And lastly, please listen to your 'GUT' and NOT your heart. The 'gut' most generally knows....we have to learn to listen.
Please follow the advice of these wonderful people. (Puppy, CG, Gucci) They really are trying to help you.
Believe me I KNOW how hard it is to let go.....but, I wonder if you are hanging on because all YOU have known is her for your adult life.
Change is scary, but, I think it is time to listen.
I wish you all the best....gg
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
