I am planning on exposing to his family today and consulting with my lawyer. This evening (he has plans to meet with her) I will expose to her husband and then when he gets home from being with her I will confront him. I plan on taking the kids to my parent's cottage for the long weekend and will tell him to take the time to think about his choices, and if he chooses the affair to not be in the house when we return on Monday.
waterbur
I like the timing of this. I did, and used to advocate to others, my exposure of WIFE FIRST, and THEN her family, but Allen A changed my mind on this. By exposing to others FIRST, and telling them that
- you have PROOF, or else you wouldn't be telling them this painful news; and
- your spouse will probably LIE to them about it, but -- again -- you HAVE PROOF, and YOU LOVE AND RESPECT THEM TOO MUCH TO EVER LIE TO THEM.
what happens is, when he DOES then lie to his own family, his credibility will take a huge hit, and yours will increase.
