Understood. I plan on backing off today and takin gthe kids to the health club.

It is testing my patience, but I already thought about being over needy or clingy.

You guys/girls are great teachers or coaches and I am starting to learn a bit now. I guess I needed to detach a bit an overcome the pain of the initial onset. Now I cam thinking a bit more clearly and collectively. It is still difficult.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10