Don't have much time this am, but will give you guys an update on the meeting with the counselor later. It went pretty well, but I did miss at least 1 GOLDEN opportunity that I thought about later.

Anyway, 2 quick questions.

1) I slept in this morning and W left for work before me and took the trash to the curb. She has done it before , but I usually do it. I was thinking aobut a quick thank-you to her, but should I just let it lie? I'm thiking not saying anything is tha right approach.

2) What about my sister and W? Should I let my sister befriend her or is that kind of like cake eating for the W?

Thanks. Will post later when I have a bit more time.