Yes. I used to be angry, miserable and cold. I told her I am happy she did this. I am not happy how it came about. I told her if she didnt do this I may of never changed, this was an awakening.

Now, I am more livelier,happier, and know I have become a beter person. I just hope it doesn't take too long for my wife to see that.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10