Right now I'm just too raw to talk to H. Unless he wants to talk working things out, I am going to fall apart if he tries to talk to me.
You're not going to fall apart, but going dim sounds like it's for the best right now. Good for you.
If he is in so much of a hurry to get divorced, then he can pay for it, and you will pay for your lawyer. Period.
Otherwise, he can wait until you decide to divorce him and get his own lawyer.
He's a big boy. He doesn't need your help. Maybe the codependency book is not such a bad read because I am sensing an odd dynamic here. He doesn't need you to enable him to divorce you.
If he's divorcing you, you get to choose how you respond and vice versa.
What is the situation with comingled funds, shared property, etc?
Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/01/1012:21 PM.
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